A GChat With My Mom, On The Topic of Dating

  • Me: If you were dating now, what medium do you think you’d use to communicate with guys — phone? text? email?
  • twitter?
  • Susan: email and text. Definitely not twitter. And preferably not phone, because it puts people on the spot. Like me.
  • Me: I know you really hate the phone
  • GChat is good for dating but sometimes hard because if you’re both online all day, there’s pressure to TALK all day
  • Sent at 3 51 PM on Thursday
  • Me: ….mom?

November 11, 2009: My First Ever GChat With My Mom

  • me: hi MOM
  • 38 minutes
  • me: MOMMM
  • helloooooo
  • 54 minutes
  • me: MOOOOOM
  • 10 minutes
  • me: mooooommmmmmmmmmmm
  • 9 minutes
  • Susan: oh, wow. cool

Tags: GChat Mom

Jill Biden. Michelle Obama. PRINCE HARRY. Making “Mother’s Day Treats.” 


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theatlantic:

How to Not Hate Dating

You have to figure out a way to be happy without a partner, without a date, without sex, without a response to that text or a “like” on a Facebook picture or a flirty exchange on GChat. 
Read more. [Image: Reuters]

theatlantic:

How to Not Hate Dating

You have to figure out a way to be happy without a partner, without a date, without sex, without a response to that text or a “like” on a Facebook picture or a flirty exchange on GChat. 

Read more. [Image: Reuters]

(via meredithbklyn)

ilovecharts:

Matchmaking on the Subway

I went on a blind date set up by the subway matchmaker last week! 

  • me: okay
  • let's
  • write
  • for HALF AN HOUR
  • and then check in
  • Leah: i was going to go lay my head down in the sink
  • but okay

Tags: GChat

"You don’t need a relationship to make you happy. You are the culmination of centuries of women who protested in pantaloons for your right to spend a Tuesday night reading a book with a glass of wine instead of cooking dinner for the family you felt societal pressure to have."

“Why Dating Is Important”

Modern Dating: A Field Guide

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A Geech With Kelly Williams Brown

  • Kelly: I think it’s also important, when you ask someone out
  • to be really fucking clear about your intentions.
  • Me: YES
  • Kelly: Like, the whole reason you are finding this bravery within yourself is because you can’t bear to not know.
  • Me: “Hey, maybe we could get together to talk about a project” is not a date
  • Kelly: So don’t water that down by writing something that could be interpreted as just friendly.
  • “Hey, my roommates and I are having a party on Saturday” — also not a date.
  • me: “Hey, awesome seeing you Saturday. Any interest in getting a drink sometime?” Date!
  • Kelly: Date!
  • Me: “Hey, awesome seeing you Saturday. I might be in the neighborhood this weekend, let me know if you’re around.” Nooooot a date.
  • Kelly: Not a date.
  • Asking someone out on a date should contain a call to action. The more specific, the better.
  • “Hey, it was great seeing you Saturday. Want to grab a drink after work this Friday?”
  • Me: Genius. Totally a date.
You guys. :-)

You guys. :-)